Sunday, December 28, 2003

Are you a Reason, a Season or a Lifetime?

People come into your life for a reason, a season or a lifetime. When you figure out which one it is, you will know what to do for each person.

When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or spiritually. They may seem like a godsend, and they are! They are there for the reason you need them to be. Then, without any wrongdoing on your part, or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die. Sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled, their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered.

And now it is time to move on.

Then people come into your life for a SEASON because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They bring you an experience of peace, or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real!

But, only for a season.

LIFETIME relationships teach you lifetime lessons: Things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas of your life.

It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant.

1 flower for this post
Hi geneous host:

Can I belatedly inaugurate as maiden guest MISbehaving by plucking this Blooming Post to decorate Desi's Place.

To do penance, I leAve tis footprint:

"Thy Reason, Season and Lifetime
is a song of life beaut&sublime
Your flowers are for all seasons
I can saviour at all times, no need reasons

But of thy invite to visit thy garnern
Yes, fRiendship and knowldege I yearn
I seek that lifetime of shAring
With one so generous and cAring."

SE7EN Salutes to a Wondrous Gardner.
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